Ask her with a mixtape

Forget the proposal box with a hair tie and mini champagne. Give your girl a mixtape of every song that defines your friendship — and ask her to stand beside you.

Why a mixtape beats a proposal box

Better than a proposal box

She doesn't need another robe with her initial on it. Give her the songs from every road trip, every breakup pep talk, every 'this is our song' moment you've shared.

Says what you can't say out loud

Some things are too big to say out loud. Let the songs do the talking — she'll get the message by track three.

A keepsake she'll replay forever

Candles burn out. Champagne gets drunk. But the soundtrack of your friendship — with all your inside jokes and stories — that's forever.

Three simple steps

01. Pick your songs

Choose the tracks that ARE your friendship — the one you scream in the car, the one from that trip, the one you played on repeat after her breakup.

02. Write the stories

Add the memories behind each song. The inside jokes, the 3 AM confessions, the photos you swore you'd never post. End it with 'Will you be my bridesmaid?'

03. Send it & watch her lose it

Share a beautiful link over brunch, in a card, or in the group chat. Guaranteed tears before she even finishes track one.

"I put 'Will you be my maid of honor?' as the last liner note. She called me sobbing before she even got to it — the songs alone said everything."
— Priya S., Bride, fall 2024

She held your hand through everything. Now ask her to hold your bouquet.

Create a Mixtape — $9.99

Common questions

What is a bridesmaid proposal mixtape?
A bridesmaid proposal mixtape is a personalized digital gift where you curate the songs that define your friendship, write the stories and memories behind each one, and end with the question 'Will you be my bridesmaid?' She gets a beautiful shareable link — it's a proposal box reimagined as music.
How do I ask my best friend to be my bridesmaid in a unique way?
Make her a Dedicato mixtape. Pick the songs from every era of your friendship — the road trip song, the one from after the breakup, the one you always scream together. Write the stories. Then ask her in the final liner note. She'll say yes before she even gets there.
Is a mixtape better than a bridesmaid proposal box?
A proposal box is nice but generic. A mixtape is irreplaceable — it's your specific friendship, your songs, your stories. She can replay it on her wedding day, on your anniversary, when she misses you. No robe or champagne bottle does that.
How long does a bridesmaid proposal mixtape take to make?
Under 10 minutes. You search for songs, write a short memory for each one, and share a link. Creating is free — sharing unlocks for $9.99.